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July 20, 2010 by David Gillaspie
IS PRIMARY CAREGIVING WASTED ON THE AFFLICTED? If you haven’t been there, then you’ve heard the story: someone’s health takes …
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Category: family, family caregiver, wellness
| Tags: aging, boomer generation, caregiver tactics, diabetes, divorce, elderly, learning, Marine Corps, parent care, parents, primary caregiver, stress
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June 30, 2010 by David Gillaspie
shakeittillwemakeit.com I participated in my children’s’ sports and didn’t go crazy. After one season watching kindergarten rec league soccer from the …
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Category: caregiving, education, exersise, family caregiver, medicine, parkinson's
| Tags: aging, Alzheimer’s, art, boomer generation, Brian Grant, cancer, caregiver tactics, coach, coaching, dementia, depression, elder care, elderly, family caregiver, family caregiving, Marine Corps, Michael J. Fox, Muhammad Ali, music, parent care, parkinson's, Parkinson's Coach, Pat Riley, people, physical education, Sandwich Generation, shakeittillwemakeit, stress
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November 17, 2009 by David Gillaspie
IT ALWAYS MATTERS The man in the hospital bed was not the man who gave his step-daughter to me at our wedding. The …
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Category: caregiving, education, wrestling
| Tags: aging, Alzheimer’s, amateur wrestling, baby boomer, boomer generation, cancer, care, caregiver, caregiver tactics, caregiving, college wrestling, combined family, competition, David Gillaspie, dementia, depression, elder care, elderly, emotions, end of life, essay, family caregiver, family caregiving, fear, high school wrestling, learning, long term care, memoir, Oregon, Oregon wrestling, parent care, parents, parkinson's, primary caregiver, Sandwich Generation, senior issues, sports, stress, victory, winning, wrestling
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November 13, 2009 by David Gillaspie
WITH GENTLE CARE Ask any family caregiver who’s gone for the cycle to recall their best memory. Just one. If they cared …
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Category: caregiving
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November 12, 2009 by David Gillaspie
AND THE OTHER WAY AROUND The family caregiver rolls through the day with a partner if their loved one is married. It’s a sandwich …
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Category: caregiving
| Tags: aging, Alzheimer’s, baby boomer, books, boomer generation, cancer, care, caregiver, caregiver tactics, caregiving, combined family, dementia, depression, Devon England, elder care, elderly, emotions, end of life, England, essay, family caregiver, family caregiving, fear, life, long term care, love, M.A.S.H., marriage, Matlock, memoir, miracle, Oregon, parent care, parents, parkinson's, primary caregiver, reading, Sandwich Generation, senior issues, stress, Zane Grey
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November 9, 2009 by David Gillaspie
IN A WORLD OF HURT What is the common response when asked “How are you?” Most agree that, “Fine. How …
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Category: caregiving
| Tags: aging, Alzheimer’s, Baby Boomers, boomer generation, cancer, caregiver, caregiver tactics, caregiving, combined family, communication, dementia, depression, elder care, elderly, emotions, end of life, essay, family caregiver, family caregiving, fear, friendship, life, manners, memoir, miracle, Oregon, parent care, parents, parkinson's, primary caregiver, Sandwich Generation, stress
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November 2, 2009 by David Gillaspie
WHERE IT SHOWS, WHERE IT DOESN’T Football on television always shows the sidelines of the winners and the losers. Look closely and …
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Category: caregiving
| Tags: aging, Alzheimer’s, baby boomer, boomer generation, cancer, caregiver, caregiver tactics, caregiving, dementia, depression, elder care, elderly, emotions, end of life, essay, family caregiver, family caregiving, fear, hospital care, life, medical options, miracle, Oregon, parent care, parents, parkinson's, primary caregiver, Sandwich Generation, stress
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October 10, 2009 by David Gillaspie
CHECK DOWN The VA hospital asks a few things of its patients. One is showing up. If you’re a …
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Category: caregiving
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October 10, 2009 by David Gillaspie
ONE APPROACH Family caregiving benefits two people, the loved one and the caregiver. Everyone else gets to watch. What …
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Category: caregiving
| Tags: aging, Alzheimer’s, Army medic, boomer generation, cancer, caregiver, caregiver tactics, caregiving, dementia, depression, elder care, elderly, emotions, end of life, essay, family caregiver, family caregiving, fear, life, memoir, miracle, Oregon, parent care, parents, parkinson's, primary caregiver, raising teen sons, Sandwich Generation, stress, team building
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October 10, 2009 by David Gillaspie
Beatin’ Ain’t Cheatin’ 1. Does a family caregiver install air conditioning in the front room of their house …
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Category: caregiving
| Tags: aging, Alzheimer’s, boomer generation, cancer, caregiver, caregiver tactics, caregiving, dementia, depression, elder care, elderly, emotions, end of life, essay, family caregiver, family caregiving, fear, hospital care, life, medical options, memoir, miracle, Oregon, parent care, parents, parkinson's, primary caregiver, raising teen sons, Sandwich Generation, stress
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October 8, 2009 by David Gillaspie
GOLD We all like winners. It’s a cruel judgment on everyone else who makes an effort that we only …
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Category: caregiving
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October 6, 2009 by David Gillaspie
RED, WHITE, AND BLUE Family caregivers are a selfish lot. They never leave well enough alone. If there’s a better …
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Category: caregiving
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October 4, 2009 by David Gillaspie
Shine A Light People without family caregiving experience in their lives see it in shades of gray instead of the …
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Category: caregiving
| Tags: aging, Alzheimer’s, amateur wrestling, boomer generation, cancer, caregiver, caregiver tactics, caregiving, dementia, depression, elder care, elderly, emotions, end of life, essay, family caregiver, family caregiving, fear, high school wrestling, life, memoir, miracle, Oregon, parent care, parents, parkinson's, primary caregiver, raising teen sons, Sandwich Generation, stress, team building
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October 3, 2009 by David Gillaspie
CAREGIVER WRESTLING MATCHES The word caregiver strikes fear into the bravest hearts. It shouldn’t. It’s a word combining two cheery …
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Category: caregiving, wrestling
| Tags: aging, Alzheimer’s, amateur wrestling, boomer generation, cancer, caregiver, caregiver tactics, caregiving, dementia, depression, elder care, elderly, emotions, end of life, essay, family caregiver, family caregiving, fear, high school wrestling, life, memoir, miracle, Oregon, parent care, parents, parkinson's, primary caregiver, raising teen sons, Sandwich Generation, stress, team building
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October 2, 2009 by David Gillaspie
WHEN YOUR’S ISN’T GOOD ENOUGH When you make the right call, you expect results. What happens if you make the …
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Category: caregiving
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October 1, 2009 by David Gillaspie
WHO WILL TAKE CARE OF US The speaker was a married woman in great health. She didn’t need anyone taking …
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September 30, 2009 by David Gillaspie
YOUR CARE DNA You are busy. You tell others how busy you are. You say you are stressed because …
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September 24, 2009 by David Gillaspie
Old football pictures, like this one from the 1930’s, tell many stories, ask many questions. Who are these people? …
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September 23, 2009 by David Gillaspie
WHO’S TO BLAME Bitterness with age comes from a sense of abandonment by those who’ve died or live too …
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Category: caregiving, education
| Tags: aging, Alzheimer's, boomer generation, cancer, caregiver, caregiver tactics, caregiving, dementia, depression, elder care, eldercare, elderly, emotions, end of life, family caregiver, family caregiving, life, memoir, miracle, Oregon, parent care, parents, parkinson's, primary caregiver, raising teen sons, Sandwich Generation
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September 12, 2009 by David Gillaspie
A guest at DG’s B&B held this photo of a standing Franklin D. Roosevelt when she talked about her life: “From …
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Category: caregiving, education, wrestling
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DG's B&B 